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		<title>See you on the Other Side by Matthew Wong</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Gretl Lam]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 21 May 2026 22:17:27 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[A solitary figure confronts distance and memory in a haunting landscape of home, absence, and emotional isolation themes]]></description>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">A tiny figure sits alone, looking back at a building in the distance. The building looks like a one-story home, the rudimentary kind you learn to draw in kindergarten, with a triangle roof and a blocky rectangular body, embedded with smaller rectangles to signify the door and windows. The figure in the foreground and the house in the background are the same size, and this scale emphasizes the depth of the landscape – the figure and the house are separated by a vast white space. And yet they are clearly connected, not only because the house is centered in the figure’s line of vision, but also because they share the same teal colors.</p>



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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The house sits at the foot of a spring-green mountain, painted over with long cascading strokes of darker green, giving the impression of a verdant and peaceful setting. Contrast this to the brown ridge where the figure is sitting, huddled in a long sleeve jacket, hands tucked into pockets. The ridge is barren except for a single tree that is mostly bare branches with sparse pale-pink leaves.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><strong><a href="http://www.matthewwongfoundation.org/biography">Matthew Wong</a></strong> was a rising young painter who died of suicide on October 2, 2019. In a moving obituary by the New York Times, his mother explained that Mr. Wong “was on the autism spectrum, had Tourette’s syndrome and had grappled with depression since childhood.” This helps to explain the sense of isolation and longing in the painting, depicted by the solitary figure on a barren ridge, looking back at a house in lush green surroundings. The figure also appears to be physically cold, wrapped in long sleeve coat, hands tucked in pockets, with no skin showing, but is sadly separated from shelter by an icy white distance. This dynamic, amidst a landscape of majestic mountain rising into star-crowded sky, gives a sense of melancholy beauty and loneliness.</p>



<figure class="wp-block-image alignright size-medium is-resized"><a href="https://www.mfa.org/exhibition/matthew-wong-the-realm-of-appearances"><img decoding="async" width="240" height="300" src="https://medhum.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Realm-of-Appearance-Overlay-1-240x300.jpg" alt="" class="wp-image-14927" style="width:320px" srcset="https://medhum.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Realm-of-Appearance-Overlay-1-240x300.jpg 240w, https://medhum.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Realm-of-Appearance-Overlay-1-820x1024.jpg 820w, https://medhum.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Realm-of-Appearance-Overlay-1-768x959.jpg 768w, https://medhum.org/wp-content/uploads/2026/05/Realm-of-Appearance-Overlay-1.jpg 1009w" sizes="(max-width: 240px) 100vw, 240px" /></a></figure>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The title of the painting, “<strong><a href="https://www.mfa.org/exhibition/matthew-wong-the-realm-of-appearances">See you on the Other Side,</a></strong>” can be interpreted in numerous ways. Mr. Wong is known for incorporating mythical elements into his work, so is this the beginning of the hero’s journey? If the tree in the foreground is interpreted as being laden with pale pink flower buds, there is a sense of hope and promise that the figure is leaving home and will return triumphant on the other side. But the tree can also be seen as a representation of fall transitioning into winter, hanging onto a few withered leaves, as the last bright red autumnal leaf blows away. Is the figure heading away from the verdant house and mountain into winter, the season that classically symbolizes death? Does the other side refer to an afterlife? A third interpretation to consider is that the figure is not leaving the house, but actually trying to get there. In this case, on the other side would refer to crossing the vast white expanse where no path is marked and no help is in sight.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><strong><a href="https://www.mfa.org/exhibition/matthew-wong-the-realm-of-appearances">View the painting at Museum of Fine Arts Boston ➔</a></strong></p>



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<p class="has-palette-color-5-background-color has-background has-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph"><strong>Matthew Wong&#8217;s Biography: </strong> <a href="https://www.matthewwongfoundation.org/biography" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.matthewwongfoundation.org/biography</a><br>A previous version of this review was published in the NYU Literature, Arts, and Medicine Database.<br>Web image from <a href="https://www.matthewwongfoundation.org/biography" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">www.matthewwongfoundation.org/</a></p>
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		<title>Call Me by Your Name </title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dustin Brinker]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2026 14:27:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[A tender summer in 1980s Italy reveals desire, identity, and the unforgettable ache of first love.]]></description>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The story begins “somewhere in Northern Italy” in 1983 <em>chez </em>Perlman, a multicultural and well-educated family. Every summer, the family (Michael Stuhlbarg &amp; Amira Casar) host a classical-arts graduate student for six weeks at their holiday home. Elio Perlman (Timothée Chalamet), the family’s 17-year-old precocious son, is expected to act as host and guide to the selected student, this year a 24-year-old American named Oliver (Armie Hammer). From the beginning, the two have a love-hate relationship; an unspoken emotional tension exists between them. Uncertain of how to handle this tension, Elio begins exploring his sexuality with his female friend, Marzia (Esther Garrel). He eventually, albeit obliquely, admits his feelings for Oliver, and the two begin a brief love affair during which Oliver suggests, in bed, that they call each other by the other’s name. Noticing the closeness of the young men, the Perlman parents suggest that Elio accompany Oliver as he spends a few days in Bergamo prior to leaving for the United States. The sojourn concludes with a bitter goodbye: Oliver departs by train, leaving Elio on the railway platform. Unable to complete his journey home alone, Elio makes a tearful call home for his mother to come pick him up. Back in town, Marzia, seeing a grief-stricken Elio, approaches and forgives him, insinuating that she knows about his recent tryst and that she will always be his loving friend. Months later, the Perlmans return to the town for Hanukkah. While his parents are in the process of picking next summer’s student, Elio gets a bittersweet surprise: Oliver is calling to inform the family that he is engaged to a woman. The film concludes with Elio staring into the dining-room fireplace, the light flickering in his red, tear-sodden eyes.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Based on the novel of the same name by André Aciman, this multilingual film took the world by storm, using three languages (French, Italian, and English) in the first five minutes. The resulting language barriers add to feelings of yearning established by the musical score, whose key elements originate from Sufjan Stevens (<em>Futile Devices</em>; <em>Mystery of Love</em>; <em>Visions of Gideon</em>). Music, language, and literature carry the work’s primary themes, namely those of precocity and sexuality. Elio embodies all three—his main hobbies include transcribing music, playing the piano, and reading. These themes are further captured by the symbol of the apricot, its relationship to precocity and sexuality explicitly discussed in the film. Furthermore, the denouement of the film, arrives through a figuratively rich and overtly sensual scene involving Elio and the summer stand-in of the apricot, the peach, (1:34:30-1:40:24), beautifully capturing the relationship between Elio’s intellectual maturity and emotional naïveté.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Controversy surrounds <em>Call Me by Your Name</em>, primarily regarding consent and age statutes. Although Elio is over the 1983 age of consent in Italy and most United States jurisdictions, his relationship with Oliver evokes discomfort. This speaks to the historical Western perception of gay relationships as predatory. Nonetheless, their relationship warrants some skepticism, particularly regarding age-based power dynamics. The Perlmans support and watch over their son as the relationship progresses, frequently checking in and pointing him to literary passages as points of reference. In this way, the film navigates a complicated and loaded social topic, particularly in the queer community.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Further depth is added by considering the historical context of the early 1980s. By 1983, the AIDS epidemic had globally taken hold, the virus only identified in France the May prior to the events of the film. “Gay cancer” was a widely used term for a rare and defining symptom of AIDS, singling out the Western community hardest hit at that time. The merciless, viral specter of death overshadowed the gay liberation movement of the previous decade. HIV is never mentioned in the film, but its presence must be known by Oliver, adding to his own hesitations and fears about his and Elio’s sexualities. 1983 was also rife with relevant political fallout: Gerry Studds––the first openly gay member of Congress––became embroiled in a scandal involving a relationship with a 17-year-old, and Bettino Craxi was elected as Italian Prime Minister, eventually leading to the collapse of the modern Italian political machine. Craxi plays a central role in the peripheral events of the film, his influence appearing on television and in conversations with dinner guests.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>Call Me by Your Name </em>is an evocative masterpiece, one of the few movies that I can watch repeatedly (cf. <em>Heated Rivalry)</em>. Despite my inherent preference for novels, this film, far and away, manifests a beauty missing from its literary inspiration. The actors perform splendidly, the music deepens the emotional journey, and the cinematography transports the audience perfectly to the setting. Every time I watch it, I discover greater depth and fall in love with it more, even if I can never look at a peach the same way.</p>



<p class="has-palette-color-5-background-color has-background has-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph"><strong>Call&nbsp;Me&nbsp;by&nbsp;Your&nbsp;Name&nbsp;</strong><br><strong>Director: </strong>Luca&nbsp;Guadagnino&nbsp;<br><strong>Screenplay:&nbsp;</strong>James&nbsp;Ivory&nbsp;<br><strong>Awards:</strong> Best Adapted Screenplay (Critics’ Choice Awards); Best Male Lead [Chalamet] &amp; Best Cinematography (Independent Spirit Awards); Outstanding Film-Wide Release (GLAAD Media Awards); Best Editing (Nastro d’Argento Awards &amp; Golden Ciak Awards); Breakout Actor [Chalamet] (Gotham Independent Film Awards &amp; Hollywood Film Awards)<br><strong>Year</strong>&nbsp;2017&nbsp;<br><strong>Studio</strong>&nbsp;Sony&nbsp;Pictures&nbsp;Classics&nbsp;<br><strong>Running&nbsp;Time&nbsp;(in&nbsp;minutes)</strong>&nbsp;132&nbsp;<br><strong>Based&nbsp;on</strong>&nbsp;<em>Call&nbsp;Me&nbsp;by&nbsp;Your&nbsp;Name</em>&nbsp;by&nbsp;André&nbsp;Aciman&nbsp;<br><br>Web image from Sony Pictures.</p>



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