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		<title>Obsession and “The Yellow Wallpaper” </title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Rudy Malcom]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 29 May 2026 13:11:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[The film highlights the peril of love that demands possession.]]></description>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">First published in 1892, “<a href="https://www.nlm.nih.gov/exhibition/theliteratureofprescription/exhibitionAssets/digitalDocs/The-Yellow-Wall-Paper.pdf">The Yellow Wallpaper</a>” by Charlotte Perkins Gilman depicts a postpartum woman whose husband, a physician, prescribes a rest cure for her so-called “nervous depression,” confining her to a nursery. The narrator’s increasing fixation on the room’s titular wallpaper reflects her descent into psychosis, culminating in her belief that a woman is trapped behind the wallpaper—and, ultimately, that she herself is that woman. </p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">What if the short story were told from the man’s point of view?&nbsp;<em>Obsession</em>—the micro-budget horror film that has quickly become one of the year’s biggest box-office successes—feels, in some ways, like an answer to that question.&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Directed by Curry Barker,&nbsp;<em>Obsession</em>&nbsp;follows Bear (played by Michael Johnston), who acquires a supernatural toy that grants his wish for his co-worker and childhood friend, Nikki (Inde Navarrette), to love him more than anyone else in the world. Nikki’s mind and body are thereby effectively hijacked, echoing the woman’s loss of agency in “The Yellow Wallpaper.” Unlike Gilman’s short story, however, <em>Obsession</em> places us in the perspective of the controlling figure, forcing us to confront not only the horror of victimization but that of possessive desire itself.&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Bear is initially presented sympathetically: as a lonely, shy, awkward music store employee with an unrequited crush. We might relate to his desperation for connection; after all, he seems as gentle as, well, a teddy bear. While bears are also predators, the character does not see himself as a villain—and because we spend time inside his mindset, neither do we. Even as Nikki begins to behave erratically, we believe that Bear deserves a chance at romance and that he can control the situation. More troubling, we believe that he can control Nikki. </p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Unlike “The Yellow Wallpaper,” in which we inhabit the woman’s mental breakdown, <em>Obsession</em> mostly foregrounds Bear’s fear and guilt, obscuring Nikki’s&nbsp;pain&nbsp;and suffering—at first. Hoping to alter his wish, he calls the toy’s customer support line and hears Nikki screaming in agony on the other end. He returns home to find her frozen in place, covered in excrement and vomit; later, she mutilates her own face with a broken bottle. Eventually, while she sleeps, the voice of her former self briefly resurfaces and begs him to kill her. But Bear refuses, asking, “What’s so bad about being with me?” His desire to be loved has become inseparable from his willingness to erase Nikki’s freedom. (Her&nbsp;surname, “Freeman,” feels heavy-handed.) The realization that we have centered Bear’s distress over the damage he has inflicted is powerfully uncomfortable.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Gilman’s short story concludes with the protagonist rubbing against the wallpaper and declaring, “I’ve got out at last&#8230; in spite of you,” causing her husband to faint as she continues circling the room, liberated through madness. By the end of&nbsp;<em>Obsession</em>, Bear is similarly inert, but Nikki is lucid and&nbsp;seemingly still&nbsp;trapped—that is, left to grapple with the carnage unleashed by the obsessive version of herself that Bear created.&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Medicine is no longer the locus of patriarchal control it was when Gilman wrote “The Yellow Wallpaper,” but it still carries traces of gendered authority. Barker’s&nbsp;<em>Obsession</em>&nbsp;critiques the insidious logic of modern “nice guy” entitlement; believing he deserves Nikki’s love, Bear prescribes not a rest cure but a “love cure” that reveals how ordinary longing and self-pity can become coercive.&nbsp;&nbsp;</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">By aligning our sympathies with the perpetrator before exposing the full cost of his desire, the film tests our complicity and highlights the peril of love that demands possession.&nbsp;</p>



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		<title>Call Me by Your Name </title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Dustin Brinker]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 27 Apr 2026 14:27:42 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[A tender summer in 1980s Italy reveals desire, identity, and the unforgettable ache of first love.]]></description>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">The story begins “somewhere in Northern Italy” in 1983 <em>chez </em>Perlman, a multicultural and well-educated family. Every summer, the family (Michael Stuhlbarg &amp; Amira Casar) host a classical-arts graduate student for six weeks at their holiday home. Elio Perlman (Timothée Chalamet), the family’s 17-year-old precocious son, is expected to act as host and guide to the selected student, this year a 24-year-old American named Oliver (Armie Hammer). From the beginning, the two have a love-hate relationship; an unspoken emotional tension exists between them. Uncertain of how to handle this tension, Elio begins exploring his sexuality with his female friend, Marzia (Esther Garrel). He eventually, albeit obliquely, admits his feelings for Oliver, and the two begin a brief love affair during which Oliver suggests, in bed, that they call each other by the other’s name. Noticing the closeness of the young men, the Perlman parents suggest that Elio accompany Oliver as he spends a few days in Bergamo prior to leaving for the United States. The sojourn concludes with a bitter goodbye: Oliver departs by train, leaving Elio on the railway platform. Unable to complete his journey home alone, Elio makes a tearful call home for his mother to come pick him up. Back in town, Marzia, seeing a grief-stricken Elio, approaches and forgives him, insinuating that she knows about his recent tryst and that she will always be his loving friend. Months later, the Perlmans return to the town for Hanukkah. While his parents are in the process of picking next summer’s student, Elio gets a bittersweet surprise: Oliver is calling to inform the family that he is engaged to a woman. The film concludes with Elio staring into the dining-room fireplace, the light flickering in his red, tear-sodden eyes.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Based on the novel of the same name by André Aciman, this multilingual film took the world by storm, using three languages (French, Italian, and English) in the first five minutes. The resulting language barriers add to feelings of yearning established by the musical score, whose key elements originate from Sufjan Stevens (<em>Futile Devices</em>; <em>Mystery of Love</em>; <em>Visions of Gideon</em>). Music, language, and literature carry the work’s primary themes, namely those of precocity and sexuality. Elio embodies all three—his main hobbies include transcribing music, playing the piano, and reading. These themes are further captured by the symbol of the apricot, its relationship to precocity and sexuality explicitly discussed in the film. Furthermore, the denouement of the film, arrives through a figuratively rich and overtly sensual scene involving Elio and the summer stand-in of the apricot, the peach, (1:34:30-1:40:24), beautifully capturing the relationship between Elio’s intellectual maturity and emotional naïveté.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Controversy surrounds <em>Call Me by Your Name</em>, primarily regarding consent and age statutes. Although Elio is over the 1983 age of consent in Italy and most United States jurisdictions, his relationship with Oliver evokes discomfort. This speaks to the historical Western perception of gay relationships as predatory. Nonetheless, their relationship warrants some skepticism, particularly regarding age-based power dynamics. The Perlmans support and watch over their son as the relationship progresses, frequently checking in and pointing him to literary passages as points of reference. In this way, the film navigates a complicated and loaded social topic, particularly in the queer community.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph">Further depth is added by considering the historical context of the early 1980s. By 1983, the AIDS epidemic had globally taken hold, the virus only identified in France the May prior to the events of the film. “Gay cancer” was a widely used term for a rare and defining symptom of AIDS, singling out the Western community hardest hit at that time. The merciless, viral specter of death overshadowed the gay liberation movement of the previous decade. HIV is never mentioned in the film, but its presence must be known by Oliver, adding to his own hesitations and fears about his and Elio’s sexualities. 1983 was also rife with relevant political fallout: Gerry Studds––the first openly gay member of Congress––became embroiled in a scandal involving a relationship with a 17-year-old, and Bettino Craxi was elected as Italian Prime Minister, eventually leading to the collapse of the modern Italian political machine. Craxi plays a central role in the peripheral events of the film, his influence appearing on television and in conversations with dinner guests.</p>



<p class="wp-block-paragraph"><em>Call Me by Your Name </em>is an evocative masterpiece, one of the few movies that I can watch repeatedly (cf. <em>Heated Rivalry)</em>. Despite my inherent preference for novels, this film, far and away, manifests a beauty missing from its literary inspiration. The actors perform splendidly, the music deepens the emotional journey, and the cinematography transports the audience perfectly to the setting. Every time I watch it, I discover greater depth and fall in love with it more, even if I can never look at a peach the same way.</p>



<p class="has-palette-color-5-background-color has-background has-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph"><strong>Call&nbsp;Me&nbsp;by&nbsp;Your&nbsp;Name&nbsp;</strong><br><strong>Director: </strong>Luca&nbsp;Guadagnino&nbsp;<br><strong>Screenplay:&nbsp;</strong>James&nbsp;Ivory&nbsp;<br><strong>Awards:</strong> Best Adapted Screenplay (Critics’ Choice Awards); Best Male Lead [Chalamet] &amp; Best Cinematography (Independent Spirit Awards); Outstanding Film-Wide Release (GLAAD Media Awards); Best Editing (Nastro d’Argento Awards &amp; Golden Ciak Awards); Breakout Actor [Chalamet] (Gotham Independent Film Awards &amp; Hollywood Film Awards)<br><strong>Year</strong>&nbsp;2017&nbsp;<br><strong>Studio</strong>&nbsp;Sony&nbsp;Pictures&nbsp;Classics&nbsp;<br><strong>Running&nbsp;Time&nbsp;(in&nbsp;minutes)</strong>&nbsp;132&nbsp;<br><strong>Based&nbsp;on</strong>&nbsp;<em>Call&nbsp;Me&nbsp;by&nbsp;Your&nbsp;Name</em>&nbsp;by&nbsp;André&nbsp;Aciman&nbsp;<br><br>Web image from Sony Pictures.</p>



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		<title>“I’m Filled with Desire”: Eros &#038; Illness with David B. Morris</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Russell Teagarden]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 23 Jun 2024 20:19:13 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[Eros fuels desires in illness, offering healing through art, literature, and companionship—David B. Morris reveals its transformative power for patients seeking meaning.]]></description>
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<p class="wp-block-paragraph">People can have certain desires stemming from their illnesses, for the arts, health, companionship, serenity, and meaning among other possibilities. The scholar, writer, and teacher David B. Morris considers these desires a form of eros that should be taken into account as a part of what people go through with their illnesses and what could potentially help them. We speak with David Morris about the relationship between eros and illness, and evaluate it using examples from art, literature, and theater. We muse about possible applications.</p>



<p class="has-palette-color-5-background-color has-background has-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph"><strong>Primary Source Citation</strong><br>Morris D. <em>Eros and Illness</em>. Cambridge MA; Harvard University Press, 2017<br><br><strong>Links</strong><br>Russell Teagarden’s relevant blog pieces:<br>&#8212; David Morris’ book, <a href="https://www.accordingtothearts.com/2024/04/28/eros-and-illness/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><em>Eros and Illness</em></a><br>&#8212; Anatole Broyard’s book, <a href="https://www.accordingtothearts.com/2022/06/25/intoxicated-by-my-illnessand-other-writings-on-life-and-death/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><em>Intoxicated by My Illness</em></a><br>&#8212; The play, <a href="https://www.accordingtothearts.com/2019/12/11/farinelli-and-the-king/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><em>Farinelli and the King</em></a><br>&#8212; <a href="https://www.accordingtothearts.com/2024/03/15/of-pain-and-profitmontaignes-kidney-stones/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">Montaigne’s essays about his kidney stones</a><br><br>Modigliani’s reclining nude series:<br>&#8212; <a href="https://www.metmuseum.org/art/collection/search/486847" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><em>Reclining Nude, </em>1917</a><br>&#8212; <a href="https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nu_couch%C3%A9" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><em>Reclining Nude </em>(<em>Nu Couché</em>) 1917–1918</a><br>&#8212; <a href="https://www.moma.org/collection/works/78432" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><em>Reclining Nude </em>(<em>Le Grand Nu</em>) 1919</a> <br>&#8212; <a href="https://www.nga.gov/collection/art-object-page.46521.html" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><em>Nude on a Blue Cushion</em> 191<em>7</em></a><br><br>David Morris’ <a href="https://virginia.academia.edu/DMorris/CurriculumVitae" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">CV</a><br><br>Thanks to David Morris for coming on this episode and providing his thinking on the role of eros in illness.<br><br><a href="https://www.theclinicandtheperson.com/" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener"><strong>The Clinic &amp; The Person</strong></a> is a podcast developed by our editor<strong> <a href="https://medhum.org/about/#Russell-Teagarden">Russell Teagarden</a></strong> to summon or quicken the attention of health care professionals, their educators, researchers and others to the interests and plights of people with specific health problems aided through knowledge and perspectives the humanities provide.<br><br>Feature Photo by <a href="https://unsplash.com/@nypl" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener">The New York Public Library</a></p>



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